The Fathers Who Chose


 Tomorrow is Father’s Day and I will honor my dad then. For tonight I want to honor the men who make the decision to love others as their own. The beauty of being a part of a church family is the community it creates. Growing up in church I had several men step in my life to offer guidance, prayer and instruction. I am thankful for each and every one of them. One of them eventually legally adopted me as his own. I’m thankful they chose to invest in me. A girl needs a dad in her life. These men over the years stepped in to fill a gap that I so needed to be filled. I appreciate each and every one of them. I honor you all in this Father’s Day. 

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